What a day!!!!!!!! I forgot when was the last time gastric visited me. However, tonight I finally get to taste the pain again. The pain even makes me forget my blog password and I have to reset the password. =S
In case you are wondering why I still able to update my blog, the pain makes me stay awake and music can definitely ease my pain. Would you believe it? =)
Bumped into an article that I would like share:-
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Somebody once told me that “Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong….it is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from here… you’ll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a “right person” for you.
Don’t rush things…. coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you.” You can never be perfect… the person you love can never be perfect too…but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without God….. that’s why we have marriage.. it’s a bond not only between you and your loved one…. but also with God.
Our relationships fail not because (s)he’s not the right person….it’s because we expected too much and we decided on our own. Let God do the work… you may call it waiting time…. but while you are waiting… pray. Let God guide you always… He knows better. No, He knows best. Love is not what you think it is….
Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.
when we think we’re in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase: “You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received…” After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say “You are the biggest mistake I’ve ever made for my entire life!!!”. Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises “Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc.” would end up “Never” and “We should part ways, I’m no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!” Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust too drops down to zero degree.
“S/He ain’t the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come.” But the big question anyone could not answer is “Is she/he the right one?” “When is the right time?” That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are and what you really want in a relationship. You’re right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don’t go deeper into it. You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life. It’s really hard to say goodbye though, but you can’t make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.
More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason. We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it’s just pity. We call it love when we’re too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we’re too much dependent on them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, it’s just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn’t something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
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What do you think? =) I do think GOD have plan for everyone of us, and there are things that we cannot changed. Sometimes something might be fated, but I believed our thinking and our action could make things better and brighter!!! =)
Tomorrow is Chap Goh Mei - Lunar Valentine's Day.
Hereby, I wish those who are attached can stay happily together whereas for those who is single can meet their true love soon.
Happy Valentine's Day!
Love,
Hor Mei
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Sammi VS Sammei
I have not updated my blog for quite some time already because I was a bit busy (lame excuse) and yet a little lazy (true reason). hehehe. I have actually finished reading the book of 郑秀文 - 值得 since few weeks ago. Let me share some of her stories.
Sammi tells us about her life during depression period. Depression comes to look for her since she took part in the movie called 長恨歌. This movie is about a woman's life. I have not watch this movie but I am planning to watch it after reading this book. =)
Sammi have achieved a lot of success in her singing and acting career. She was given a lot of opportunities by many directors in playing those major female roles in many canto movies. No doubt about her singing career also. Throughout the years, Sammi won a lot of Best Female Singer in Asia regardless of canto/mandarin songs. She earns millions and millions. She is supposed to be happy with her life. In fact, she is not happy and this is how leads her into depression mode.
During that period, she keeps thinking about a question 'All this thing that I have right now.. Is this what I really want?' Sammi felt so tired.. She has no strength to stand up to even make a move to get some food from the fridgea. All these years, she has been doing concerts, acting movies, making advertisements, going everywhere for promo without thinking about 'Is this what I really want?' question.
Suddenly this question prompts to her. While she was young, she truly thinks that all this fame, money, status can satisfied her till the day she died. In fact, she realised that this is not true and she found herself lost. Depression.
Sammi stopped herself from doing anything (being an artist) for 2 years. During that 2 years, she traveled to some countries with some close friends and try to find her true self back. She starts to think what am I making myself suffer for having such diet plan for all these years? Sammi: I never treat my body properly? I always eat 1 meal per day? Why am I doing all this? Am I really happy? Tears accompanied her every night before sleep.
All in a sudden, GOD found her (Sammi says). She started to believe that everyone is born for a reason and your life is planned by GOD. It's a gift if you are still living on this earth today and if you are no longer in this world, you will be lead to heaven. Throughout your journey of life, you will be watch by GOD. He will accompany you in your life until death.
Although Sammi had to go through that period of depression, but she gained a lot she says. She was grateful that she had gone through this period and now she felt relief. She is now getting back on track with her career again but she will not torture her body like before. (many people have no food to eat and yet died, Sammi promised to herself that she will stay healthy by having a balance diet because she wanted to adopt more children and help more children who has been suffering from hunger and without chance to study).
Her attitude to life has changed once she believes in GOD. But, she is still Sammi Cheng (a better one). =) Sammi Cheng, you are my idol forever. You have our blessings with you always. Amen!
Love,
Hor Mei
Continued..
Last friday was my company annual dinner and I was excited yet nervous because I was invited to sing a duet song with my male colleague. I was quite serious about the performance because I was always wanted to do this since I was.... (secret) LOL
Although it is a simple CNY song but I did put effort in practice this song because I don't want to screw it during that night and I wanted to make this show turn out nicely. =)
When it's our turn to go on stage. My heart beats so fast and that was the time I truly experienced that being a singer is definitely definitely not easy and it requires more courages than I thought. (I am afraid that I will forget the lyrics and the dance steps, afraid of I will do something stupid on the stage etc etc) As I was singing, I can feel my right hand is shaking coz of nervousness. LOL
When it comes to the chorus, I started to loosen up myself and we even ask the audience to sing along with us. When I heard the floor shouting 'Sammei Sammei' as if I was really singing at concert. HAHAHA. I was really enjoyed that night!
It was an unforgettable night and I had a lot of FUNssss and I hope everybody had fun too! =D
Sammi tells us about her life during depression period. Depression comes to look for her since she took part in the movie called 長恨歌. This movie is about a woman's life. I have not watch this movie but I am planning to watch it after reading this book. =)
Sammi have achieved a lot of success in her singing and acting career. She was given a lot of opportunities by many directors in playing those major female roles in many canto movies. No doubt about her singing career also. Throughout the years, Sammi won a lot of Best Female Singer in Asia regardless of canto/mandarin songs. She earns millions and millions. She is supposed to be happy with her life. In fact, she is not happy and this is how leads her into depression mode.
During that period, she keeps thinking about a question 'All this thing that I have right now.. Is this what I really want?' Sammi felt so tired.. She has no strength to stand up to even make a move to get some food from the fridgea. All these years, she has been doing concerts, acting movies, making advertisements, going everywhere for promo without thinking about 'Is this what I really want?' question.
Suddenly this question prompts to her. While she was young, she truly thinks that all this fame, money, status can satisfied her till the day she died. In fact, she realised that this is not true and she found herself lost. Depression.
Sammi stopped herself from doing anything (being an artist) for 2 years. During that 2 years, she traveled to some countries with some close friends and try to find her true self back. She starts to think what am I making myself suffer for having such diet plan for all these years? Sammi: I never treat my body properly? I always eat 1 meal per day? Why am I doing all this? Am I really happy? Tears accompanied her every night before sleep.
All in a sudden, GOD found her (Sammi says). She started to believe that everyone is born for a reason and your life is planned by GOD. It's a gift if you are still living on this earth today and if you are no longer in this world, you will be lead to heaven. Throughout your journey of life, you will be watch by GOD. He will accompany you in your life until death.
Although Sammi had to go through that period of depression, but she gained a lot she says. She was grateful that she had gone through this period and now she felt relief. She is now getting back on track with her career again but she will not torture her body like before. (many people have no food to eat and yet died, Sammi promised to herself that she will stay healthy by having a balance diet because she wanted to adopt more children and help more children who has been suffering from hunger and without chance to study).
Her attitude to life has changed once she believes in GOD. But, she is still Sammi Cheng (a better one). =) Sammi Cheng, you are my idol forever. You have our blessings with you always. Amen!
Love,
Hor Mei
Continued..
Last friday was my company annual dinner and I was excited yet nervous because I was invited to sing a duet song with my male colleague. I was quite serious about the performance because I was always wanted to do this since I was.... (secret) LOL
Although it is a simple CNY song but I did put effort in practice this song because I don't want to screw it during that night and I wanted to make this show turn out nicely. =)
When it's our turn to go on stage. My heart beats so fast and that was the time I truly experienced that being a singer is definitely definitely not easy and it requires more courages than I thought. (I am afraid that I will forget the lyrics and the dance steps, afraid of I will do something stupid on the stage etc etc) As I was singing, I can feel my right hand is shaking coz of nervousness. LOL
When it comes to the chorus, I started to loosen up myself and we even ask the audience to sing along with us. When I heard the floor shouting 'Sammei Sammei' as if I was really singing at concert. HAHAHA. I was really enjoyed that night!
It was an unforgettable night and I had a lot of FUNssss and I hope everybody had fun too! =D
Monday, January 10, 2011
SAMMI 郑秀文 - 值得
当我从友人手上获得此书时，我真的感到很兴奋，因为我终于有幸可以翻阅SAMMI生命里的某些思索。
郑秀文是一位我最喜爱的艺人。由她演戏到歌唱，我都觉得她是一级棒的！
她擁有一種特別的聲線﹐由我十三歲開始﹐我已經可以把她的歌曲朗朗上口。 哈哈大笑﹗
I don't know why my laptop suddenly don't allow me to write in Chinese! ta ma de!
Anyway, I'm in the midst of reading Sammi's book! =D I would share more about what I read in the coming blogs. Stay tuned if you are interested! ;)
Above are some of the photos captured inside the book. :) Sammi is super gorgeous!
I love you, Sammi!!
Lastly, a very special Thank You to a very special person who bought me this book all the way from HK. =)
Love,
HM
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
GLEE Season 2
I have finished watching GLEE Season 1 and started with GLEE Season 2 which I only have until episode 10. It talks about Christmas Eve and according to Rachel from the drama - "No one should be spending Chrismtas Eve alone." :) And also, Rachel and Finn together they sang my fav Christmas Song - Last Christmas. It was really nice. However due to copy right issue, I am not able to share it here with you guys. :)
I knew some people out there has to spend Christmas alone 'coz they could have been up tie with their work and etc etc. I hope next year everyone gets to celebrate Christmas with their family and friends and the best is with their special someone. Especially for those who are in a long distance relationship. Please have a little more faith and patience towards the year, do believe in your hard work and effort is going to be worth while. :)
Right now, I'm going to look for another source to con't watching GLEE Season 2.
Adios! ;D
I knew some people out there has to spend Christmas alone 'coz they could have been up tie with their work and etc etc. I hope next year everyone gets to celebrate Christmas with their family and friends and the best is with their special someone. Especially for those who are in a long distance relationship. Please have a little more faith and patience towards the year, do believe in your hard work and effort is going to be worth while. :)
Right now, I'm going to look for another source to con't watching GLEE Season 2.
Adios! ;D
Monday, January 3, 2011
I LOVE GLEE!!!!!
All I want to say is GLEE is FANTASTIC!! :D
I love their singing so much. There's one scene which makes me drop my tears 'coz they were working so hard on their vocal in order to win the district competition, somehow rather their song list was leak out to their competitors and their songs were copied by them. However, they still won the competition by singing spontaneously during the competition. WWEeeeee!! Feel so happy for them!! If one wants to win, one must win without cheating. Yeahh!! I feel like singing so much right now!! I couldn't express how much I want to sing right now!! But, I know it's bed time. I couldn't sleep 'coz I am feeling sooo GLEE right now!! LOL. Can someone please put me to sleep. *BIG SIGH*
I love their singing so much. There's one scene which makes me drop my tears 'coz they were working so hard on their vocal in order to win the district competition, somehow rather their song list was leak out to their competitors and their songs were copied by them. However, they still won the competition by singing spontaneously during the competition. WWEeeeee!! Feel so happy for them!! If one wants to win, one must win without cheating. Yeahh!! I feel like singing so much right now!! I couldn't express how much I want to sing right now!! But, I know it's bed time. I couldn't sleep 'coz I am feeling sooo GLEE right now!! LOL. Can someone please put me to sleep. *BIG SIGH*
Sunday, January 2, 2011
At the beginning - 2011
Happy New Year Everyone!
Today is '2-1-2011', the second day of year 2011. I like the way I wrote the date format, let me recall my studies time in primary school, I think I used to write the date format in such way. HAHA! Please do not mind my silly-ness. Today, I feel like recalling many things within 10 years times. Starting from 16 years old. GOSH!
Oh MY oh MY.. I don't feel like believing that I am 26 years old this year.. =) I am approaching 30s. OH My my my....
Many things happened in the past ten years (which include happy and sad moments). Some family member died and some new babies joined in to the family. Some frens leave us and some might not be as close as before. Sometimes, you find your job is challenging but most of the time it is hectic and hateful. I believed this happened to everyone of us. :) I am not going to write about what had happened in my past ten years because you guys are going to say that I am insane. LOL. Actually, as I grow older I think some of my memories are getting faded also and I couldn't really remember everything.
Anyway, I'd like to stick to some old saying but meaningful to me. It's a brand new year again and I'd like to wish everyone of you have a safe year ahead and most importantly stay healthy always. For those whom does not call home often, please call your family now! :) Time flies, do cherish and appreciate what you already have right now. However, do not forget to chase after your dreams. I always believe that we need to have something to look forward to in order to achieve. e.g. some girls would die hard to save in order to get a new LV bag. LOL. That's not a bad thing because as long as you are earning $$ in a legal way, I support you to go ahead. hehe. But, I think the girls would feel more happy if their BF buy for them. =P So guys, please work harder!! LOL. You only have this girl that you love once in a life time. There's nothing wrong to buy her a gift once in a while as long as affordable. I know you might not agree with me. But trust me, it's worthwhile when you see that smile on her face. =) The example is quite lousy hor. LOL. Forgive my silly-ness again. Been eating too much pork last night. HAHAHA. I guess it affects my thought also. =P
I just want to say a BIG THANK YOU to all my friends & family & my love one, I am very grateful to have each of you in my life. You guys are like puzzle pieces, I need each of you in order to complete my beautiful picture of life. hehe. WOW! It's another good phrase from Har Hor Mei. LOL.
Thank you for accompanying me for all these years. I am now 26 years old, I hope to have you guys to be with me while I am 36, 46, 56, 66, and even older in the future (hopefully I can live that long). =) The best is bring along your grandchildren for me to cubit! hahaha.
Let's face all challenges together in year 2011! Love you all!!
With Love Always,
Hor Mei
Today is '2-1-2011', the second day of year 2011. I like the way I wrote the date format, let me recall my studies time in primary school, I think I used to write the date format in such way. HAHA! Please do not mind my silly-ness. Today, I feel like recalling many things within 10 years times. Starting from 16 years old. GOSH!
Oh MY oh MY.. I don't feel like believing that I am 26 years old this year.. =) I am approaching 30s. OH My my my....
Many things happened in the past ten years (which include happy and sad moments). Some family member died and some new babies joined in to the family. Some frens leave us and some might not be as close as before. Sometimes, you find your job is challenging but most of the time it is hectic and hateful. I believed this happened to everyone of us. :) I am not going to write about what had happened in my past ten years because you guys are going to say that I am insane. LOL. Actually, as I grow older I think some of my memories are getting faded also and I couldn't really remember everything.
Anyway, I'd like to stick to some old saying but meaningful to me. It's a brand new year again and I'd like to wish everyone of you have a safe year ahead and most importantly stay healthy always. For those whom does not call home often, please call your family now! :) Time flies, do cherish and appreciate what you already have right now. However, do not forget to chase after your dreams. I always believe that we need to have something to look forward to in order to achieve. e.g. some girls would die hard to save in order to get a new LV bag. LOL. That's not a bad thing because as long as you are earning $$ in a legal way, I support you to go ahead. hehe. But, I think the girls would feel more happy if their BF buy for them. =P So guys, please work harder!! LOL. You only have this girl that you love once in a life time. There's nothing wrong to buy her a gift once in a while as long as affordable. I know you might not agree with me. But trust me, it's worthwhile when you see that smile on her face. =) The example is quite lousy hor. LOL. Forgive my silly-ness again. Been eating too much pork last night. HAHAHA. I guess it affects my thought also. =P
I just want to say a BIG THANK YOU to all my friends & family & my love one, I am very grateful to have each of you in my life. You guys are like puzzle pieces, I need each of you in order to complete my beautiful picture of life. hehe. WOW! It's another good phrase from Har Hor Mei. LOL.
Thank you for accompanying me for all these years. I am now 26 years old, I hope to have you guys to be with me while I am 36, 46, 56, 66, and even older in the future (hopefully I can live that long). =) The best is bring along your grandchildren for me to cubit! hahaha.
Let's face all challenges together in year 2011! Love you all!!
With Love Always,
Hor Mei
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Kuching Trip
Just came back from Kuching this afternoon. WOW. It was my first time to visit Kuching town and it was also my first time on Business Travelling. hehehe. 'Biz Travel' = Sounds pro! LOL!!
I was travelling with my GM and TL in this trip. It was a totally fresh and good experience. The objective of visiting Kuching this round is to meet up with prospect of WMS. At the same time, we were there to discuss the enhancement projects with our existing customer - Mr. Ma. He explained to us on how to manage a warehouse - starting from receiving orders, picking goods, packing goods, invoicing until delivery. Aside from that, he is such a good person and he gave us the best hospitality ever. He brought us to taste some delicious localties of Sarawak food and he gave us every ride to everywhere. =) A BIG THANKSS to him!
During the 3 days 2 nights trip, I have forgotten that I have a test plan on 23rd with a customer in AU. The customer got really frustrated when he received my out of office response and he called up to AU office and look for me. I feel very very bad because it was my fault and the testing has to be postponed because of my carelessness. =( I tell myself that I cannot make such mistake again!
However, I am grateful because I gained good experiences from this trip. =) I have to thank my TL for giving me such an exposure on how to deal with a customer. She told me that 'next time' I will be the one who do it. LOL. Hopefully, one day I can be like her. hehe.
Some photos to share as below:
Sarawak View from our hotel
Kuching Town
Sarawak Laksa! Drools! With Kuey Chap somemore! LOL
Some of the famous localties
生肉面! I ate alot of pork slices in this few days!
"Midin" - Sarawak Special! They are wild!
Our Bed Room! Finally can sleep!
Living hall of our apartment
First day of arrival - we had lunch at the famous Kuey Zhap shop! lol.
Mr. Ma told me that the major population in Sarawak is Iban and Kadazan then followed by Chinese. There is a minority of Malays but there is only a few Indians around. No wonder most of the Sarawakians love PORK so much. You can find PORK almost everywhere. LOL.
Alright. I'm getting really tired by now. It's bed time. Goodnight. =)
I was travelling with my GM and TL in this trip. It was a totally fresh and good experience. The objective of visiting Kuching this round is to meet up with prospect of WMS. At the same time, we were there to discuss the enhancement projects with our existing customer - Mr. Ma. He explained to us on how to manage a warehouse - starting from receiving orders, picking goods, packing goods, invoicing until delivery. Aside from that, he is such a good person and he gave us the best hospitality ever. He brought us to taste some delicious localties of Sarawak food and he gave us every ride to everywhere. =) A BIG THANKSS to him!
During the 3 days 2 nights trip, I have forgotten that I have a test plan on 23rd with a customer in AU. The customer got really frustrated when he received my out of office response and he called up to AU office and look for me. I feel very very bad because it was my fault and the testing has to be postponed because of my carelessness. =( I tell myself that I cannot make such mistake again!
However, I am grateful because I gained good experiences from this trip. =) I have to thank my TL for giving me such an exposure on how to deal with a customer. She told me that 'next time' I will be the one who do it. LOL. Hopefully, one day I can be like her. hehe.
Some photos to share as below:
Mr. Ma told me that the major population in Sarawak is Iban and Kadazan then followed by Chinese. There is a minority of Malays but there is only a few Indians around. No wonder most of the Sarawakians love PORK so much. You can find PORK almost everywhere. LOL.
Alright. I'm getting really tired by now. It's bed time. Goodnight. =)
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